He has just downed a bottle of whisky

**~Twiggy~** · 16-06-2006, 10:33pm

He has drunk a whole ****ing bottle of Jack Danies tonight. The ****ing *******.
He opened the bottle at just before Nine. I am absolutely bloody furious.

He hasnt had a drink for two night and because bitch face has been nominated out the house he ordered a chinese and had it delivered by Taxi and was drunk when it arrived, I payed and now he has blottoed out on the sofa after one mouthful of food.
I have saved the bottle and going to crucify him in the morning.

I thought he was going to start improving as work is coming in thick and fast now and he has made an effort to lose weight for his motorsport.

What a complete ****.

After I had such a lovely day today this how it has finished. Totally spoilt.

**Diddlum** · 16-06-2006, 10:45pm

Oh no, bloody hell that's crap.

Sorry, I don't know what to say, don't know any background to this but you sound like you need a big hug.

**Jamtart** · 16-06-2006, 10:48pm

aw hun

dont know the history either but sounds really crappy!

**August Girl** · 16-06-2006, 10:50pm

How big a bottle? 70cl?????

Big hugs to you Mads

It's definitely something that needs sorting out

**Julesb** · 16-06-2006, 10:52pm

Sending you a hug.x

**Sonriendo** · 16-06-2006, 10:52pm

Oh you poor thing.

to you. I had one like this in my past and used to spoil special things for me. Just leave him there, I used to try covering mine with a blanket so he wouldn't come in to the bedroom later and disturb me if I managed to sleep. So sorry you had your lovely day spoiled.

**littlepinkpiglet** · 16-06-2006, 10:59pm

Hasn't J got a drum or trumpet or really loud fire truck or something he can climb in bed and play for daddy at 7 am???

So sorry your day has been ruined like that

**~Twiggy~** · 16-06-2006, 11:12pm

Yep a 70 cl.

History. 12 years together and one son born two and a half years ago. My parnter, Self employed Shopfitter, lovely man.
We bought our first house and had a mortgage, needed extensive work and WE gutted it out and nearly finished it. Still needs doing.
Used to do Dope before which he has always done recreationally, then I found out he had a Cocaine problem, when he worked stupid hours and I do mean stupid hours as the stress of meeting deadlines. I found out, went ballistic and he did clean up eventually. We got stronger and the business did well. Several years later I fell pregnant, not planned at all and still don't think I'm mother material two and half years on.
He stopped smoking soon as we found out we were going to be parents. Everything more or less great since, bit of depression from me in and out over the Twelve years.
Two years ago we bought a second home and have move in and lived with MIL for 12 months. She has just moved out into our other home, and is looked after finacially. He totally respects her and family means everything to him funnily. So this year all going well, work a bit slack and he cannot relax and I notice he has started drinking JDs as way to relax.
He has also taken up motorsport and is doing well.
But he has been drinking more and more and easily goes through three bottles of JD a week. Now over the last week he has slowed down his consumption and is losing weight. He cycles and rows most nights.
So tonight was a big no no.
What the hell do I do? I love him, he is great company and is very intelligent and also he is very calming with me and can see the big picture in most cases and my family love him too. He is very practical and reads between the lines and thoughful. So why is he doing this?

Sorry for the life story.