Who is this Damsel on FB?

[irislili]

But my point Adelelee is that I wouldn't want my name to be posted anywhere. Whether it was linked to a specific damsel name or not. Our perception of risk differs.

well dont have any damsel friends on FB and dont join the FB group and the chances are no one will know your name its all about managing our perception of risk

[LibertyGal72]

well i wouldnt have a clue as to ruby's real name and I found her axe comment amusing - hence the - what did you not understand?

i do think that damz should delete the comments with real name in them

Sorry, irislili, but while Ruby can turn a phrase (and yes the way she said it was amusing) the point she makes is a serious one. And it looked to me as if her point was not being taken seriously, is all.

[Adelelee]

But my point Adelelee is that I wouldn't want my name to be posted anywhere. Whether it was linked to a specific damsel name or not. Our perception of risk differs.

Ok, I am sure Dams will delete it

[Adelelee]

Can you add me please? You are one of the few Damsels on my fb.

just about to switch off for the night, can you PM me on FB to remind me to do it tomorrow honey, I have a brain like a sieve at the moment

xx

[irislili]

Sorry, irislili, but while Ruby can turn a phrase (and yes the way she said it was amusing) the point she makes is a serious one. And it looked to me as if her point was not being taken seriously, is all.

yep, i get it. (i'm not that dumb)
like i said i agree real names shouldnt be posted and I think that Damz should delete any names but the only way you will have total protection from being outed is not to have any FB/twatter damsels friends

[Ruby]

I am sure Damz will delete it. I am not enormously worried and I was partially joking* but I do think we really shouldn't be posting anyone's name without their say so. It has probably put a lot of people off joining the group.


*I would sharpen the axe, really.

[bubblewrap]

Just for the record, if anyone posts my full name in a public forum and says "Who is this Damsel please?" I will take your head off with a blunt axe.

You are Felicia Flumpbottom, aren't you?

[parkejm]

Just being paranoid here, but this is a totally secret group right? I know you've added me Janice but I've had so much grief from work about FB that I'm really careful about only having real friends on there.

Also, should I add people to the group who are my current FB friends? Some of them pop up on the right under suggested members.

I just got DH to log on and do a search and he couldn't see the Damsels group at all.

I beleive that you can just add friends, it's not managed as such so if we do want to keep this private, everyone has to be sure that they are inviting Damsels members only. Does that make any sense? I guess I can see how it *could* get out of hand if there was a big falling out etc.

I hope I haven't pissed anyone off by just inviting loads of Damsels/exDamsels to the group, I should have thought about it a bit harder. Sorry if I have annoyed anyone.

[bubblewrap]

It has probably put a lot of people off joining the group.

I'm actually hugely put off by the number of people saying "I don't even post on/visit Damsels anymore but I'm soandsouser" Why on earth would you join a private group for a forum you don't participate in??

[Katiekipper]

I'm actually hugely put off by the number of people saying "I don't even post on/visit Damsels anymore but I'm soandsouser" Why on earth would you join a private group for a forum you don't participate in??

This ^