Ok then ladies here are some details about ME lol

**Samba** · 15-05-2012, 10:41pm

what an idiot

**Princess Fiona** · 15-05-2012, 10:44pm

So lovely to hear!! Yay to you XX

***kate*** · 15-05-2012, 11:19pm

Fab to hear a lovely happy update from you!

**nickimacrae** · 15-05-2012, 11:25pm

Oh what a lovely update!!

**Jelly** · 16-05-2012, 06:33am

sounds fab. Hopefully a job will turn up soon and ice the cake, so to speak. Certainly from your FB photos you look amazing

Your ex is a tit, and it's a real shame.

**Cymber** · 16-05-2012, 09:21am

Originally Posted by DKNI

So anyone going through a shit break up....it gets better

Thank you for saying that, I need to hear it.

Whilst I don't really 'know' you, it's lovely to hear you have come through this in such a positive way. Wishing you and your partner - is it at the stage to refer to him as that?!? - all the luck for the future.

**gizamojo** · 16-05-2012, 09:27am

Really pleased to hear how well things are going for you xxx

**DKNI** · 16-05-2012, 11:53am

Originally Posted by Cymber

Thank you for saying that, I need to hear it.

Whilst I don't really 'know' you, it's lovely to hear you have come through this in such a positive way. Wishing you and your partner - is it at the stage to refer to him as that?!? - all the luck for the future.

I took a long time to make sure the boys were settled and that I wasn't some mad woman who would ruin a new relationship with my crazed ex hating rants. But not everyone needs to take so long.
I think you just need to take your time and work on the things that make you happy, built up your confidence and enjoy being you again (I got totally lost along the way with ex and now he doesn't 'get' me at all)

It does get easier once the grieving is done (even if you ended it) so long as you work at it and don't wallow for too long.

As for new man, yeah he refers to me as girlfriend lol I find that a bit daft at my age but its so hard to know what to call him

Awww thanks Jelly

there are a lot of photos on there

. But I definitely have a new lease of life and a new love for shoes

**Velvet Chain** · 16-05-2012, 12:07pm

It is great to hear such a positive update from you DKNI, I remember all the sh*t that you were going through with your ex and am so pleased that you have come through it and area stronger person again. Your boys sound so happy and settle and "well adjusted"(forwant of a better phrase) - you did a good job.

Hope everything works out well for you with the new guy and with the jobbie situation.xxx