Anyone else feel like this when planning a wedding :-(

[Tekkencat]

jeeees CH you need to shred ALOT of people by the sounds of it

but having said that - no not everyone is going to be interested in your wedding its nothing to do with you its just a fact they just dont care about it like you do

you need to look at your life and say THIS is what I want and do it for YOU and not everyone else - by the sounds of it you are (subconsciously or not) trying to keep things ticking along to keep everyone else happy - wel bollox to that - this is your big day - do it your way - you cannot make everyone happy its just not possible

and as awful as it sounds you really really need to tell your mum to shut the feck up about your weight once and for all - ive never seen such a perfect example of a mother causing their child to have such body dysmorphia (sp) in my entire life - its just awful

[clowe74]

Agree with the lovely lady above me

This is your day, do it for you no one else.

And some people just dont like weddings, they go and will be happy but dont get the excitement.

[DillyDally]

not everyone is going to be interested in your wedding its nothing to do with you its just a fact they just dont care about it like you do

I agree. I planned our wedding, and never had an expectation that anyone would be excited about it, apart from us! I don't get that excited about other people's wedding planning, either, although I love going to weddings.

I also agree that you need to ask your Mum not to mention anything about your weight again. You're gorgeous, you don't need to worry about that. What do you say when she says things like that to you? I think I would reply with something like 'Thanks for letting me know, Mum. I'd rather you didn't say anything like that again'. Like a broken record. It's how obsessed about your weight she is.

[Sam]

I don't know if anyone else has mentioned this but to me, it's still quite far off. I don't get excited about or start planning for things until less than a month before.

[Sadie]

I agree with what the majority of the others have said hunnie, it is nice to share that excitement, have someone to chat to etc, but remember you still do have us . Like Sam said people tend to get excited around a month or so before, i bet this will be the case with yours too.

I don't agree with the comment saying that dresses suit a particular size best . Thin, slim, curvy... whatever, i've saw lots of stunning brides of different shapes. You're lovely just the way you are and will look beautiful on your special day, i'm sure of it .

[LibertyGal72]

jeeees CH you need to shred ALOT of people by the sounds of it

but having said that - no not everyone is going to be interested in your wedding its nothing to do with you its just a fact they just dont care about it like you do

you need to look at your life and say THIS is what I want and do it for YOU and not everyone else - by the sounds of it you are (subconsciously or not) trying to keep things ticking along to keep everyone else happy - wel bollox to that - this is your big day - do it your way - you cannot make everyone happy its just not possible

and as awful as it sounds you really really need to tell your mum to shut the feck up about your weight once and for all - ive never seen such a perfect example of a mother causing their child to have such body dysmorphia (sp) in my entire life - its just awful

^^^^^^ Tek has it spot on.

I invited I think three people from my family to our wedding - the rest I don't give a fig about. They cause me more anxiety and pain than love so feck 'em.

[Northern Angel]

Loads of good advice CH

I think most weddings are really stressful to plan, keeping everyone happy etc etc. Ours wasn't too bad but there were a few issues. We decided to care more about the people who were supportive rather than the people who weren't there or weren't supportive.

And ignore the comments about your weight, like everyone has said you'll look gorgeous.