Is this an acceptable thing to say?

[Lu Lu]

Odd dilemma of the day!

A Mum at the school has arranged for a Mum's night out to a local restaurant in a couple of weeks and I am keen on going. Was telling DH last night and he said its a vegetarian restaurant.

I am a fussy fuss pot when it comes to food and so I had a look at their menu and tbh there's nothing on it I'd really like. I'm dissapointed as I wanted to go out but I don't want to spend money on something I won't enjoy.

DH said that I should say I'm busy but the last 2 times she's arranged something I have actually been busy and not gone and I just think a third time and she'll stop asking so I want to tell the truth but I'm not sure if it might just be a bit rude??

[parkejm]

I've been to restaurants before and not eaten anything, the restaurant haven't batted an eyelid especially in a group and if I am buying drinks. So I would go You could always ask the restaurant in advance if they can tailor anything for you, or just produce a nice salad for you.

Or have 2 desserts

[Fiz]

They might have a specials board on the night with something on that you like. Would you really not go?

[Velvet Chain]

Personally I would go, but I can't imagine there being a menu where there wouldn't be something I could eat - even if it is just a starter or dessert and of course alcohol!!

[Mrs B]

Janice speaks a lot of sense, I certainly wouldn't pass up on this because the food wasn't to my liking. Just go and order a plate of chips and have a good time!

[LibertyGal72]

You should go.

Tell her you are a fussy fusspot when it comes to food. And might not eat much. Then she will know in advance,so won't fret.

Personally I love going out with others choosing the restaurant. We end up going to the 'same' places. It's nice trying different stuff. And I quite enjoy eating meals without meat.

[cheeky_biscuit]

Im fussy too but I'd go and try & find something on the menu that I've never had.
School mum night out etiquette is an usual political web. I'd go, smile lots and not complain.

['Line]

I have been to restaurants before and just had a salad and dessert as I didn't fancy anything else on the menu. I think one time I had two starters. If there are a few of you going I would go and enjoy yourself. You don't need to make excuses for yourself.

[Lu Lu]

OK, fair enough.

I forgot to say that I will have no choice in what's on the table as we're having a pre-determined banquet so I am going to shell out £14 not to eat. And yes, I am afraid I am that fussy - sorry but I am.

[Chell]

Could you meet them for a drink after the food? If you feel uncomfortable you could say you have an appointment but can get there later.