Serena has moved up into the "big girls" room today at nursery

**Adelelee** · 24-02-2009, 12:54pm

and I am all

She is really poorly for a start, been up most of the night with her, she has a terrible cough so that is worrying me as her eating reall suffers when she is poorly and we have a lot more choking episodes (she had a really bad one at the weekend, DH said he was minutes away from calling an ambulance and Seri was saying "doctor daddy doctor"

)

Her main carer has gone with her for the day and a half she is there (but obvously wont be there ALL day) and I just feel like I am back to square one worrying about her being with people who dont "know" her. All the staff have been given leaflets about her TOF and her carer, Louann, have given then all a talk about what she can and cant have but I am still

I got really upset leaving her this morning and whilst talking to Louann's deputy. I am sure they all think I am totally

but I find it so hard trusting other people with her (am in tears now as I am I typing this)

Sorry I dont even know what anyone can say, I just needed to tell someone how worried I am (Dh worries about her but not in the way i do, maybe I am just too protective over her......)

xx

***Fallen Angel*** · 24-02-2009, 12:59pm

It's understandibly going to be hard for you honey

but fingers crossed once she settles in she will be fine.

**noddy** · 24-02-2009, 01:10pm

If she's having trouble settling into the other room can they stagger it for longer? Betty's moving up to the pre-school room at nursery the first nursery day after her birthday (about 3 weeks time) and she's been going into the pre-school room for an afternoon at a time for a week. They're obviously just easing her in gently. Maybe they could do that with Seri?

Noddy

**jubiedoo16** · 24-02-2009, 01:15pm

Just keep calling up and checking if that reassures you hon. I can imagine how difficult it is, it is very difficlut to put your trust in someone to do the best by the most precious thing in your life.

**Adelelee** · 24-02-2009, 01:17pm

If she's having trouble settling into the other room can they stagger it for longer?

TBH it is not her thats having the problem

she went in fine today, so long as her beloved Louann is there she is fine, its just me

**Tekkencat** · 24-02-2009, 02:09pm

awww you will be fine sweetheart (as will Seri) It must be so so hard for you though - I just cant imagine

**noddy** · 24-02-2009, 02:28pm

Originally Posted by Adelelee

TBH it is not her thats having the problem

she went in fine today, so long as her beloved Louann is there she is fine, its just me

they grow up too quickly!

I'm sure it's normal to have reservations if you're in the situation you are - her diet means she needs special care in that area so you're bound to be a bit wobbly until you've seen that they know what they're doing.

Noddy

**RealGoneKid** · 24-02-2009, 08:45pm

Oh honey

It must be so so hard, particularly when she's not very well. Is Louann not moving up with her now?

**Hello Kitty** · 24-02-2009, 08:56pm

Adele, I don't think you are being overprotective at all. I would be exactly the same

I am sure she will be fine but you can't help worrying. I hope her cough clears up too

**Adelelee** · 24-02-2009, 10:04pm

Originally Posted by RealGoneKid

Oh honey

It must be so so hard, particularly when she's not very well. Is Louann not moving up with her now?

she was there today, which DID make it a bit easier but obviously she is not there ALL day (they do early and late shifts) so its just all about me building up my confidence again in regards to leaving her with people who dont "know" her

xx