OMG
I swear they are now working in tandem.
They have a tantrum each over the same thing.
They have ball A and B and car A and B but they both have to have A or B at exactly the same time even if A and B are the same type, colour, size etc they both NEED A.

Both go into meltdown mode. Dylan screeches at me and Kane screams and goes off to slam cupboard doors.

I need to find that zen like state that helps me deal with tantrums and its just not happening and I feel like throwing one as well into the mix for good measure.

Time out is so not helping at the minute and I appear to have lost control and have no idea how the hell to get it back again.

Ironically tho they are angels when outside thank god! If they start having tantrums outside I am going to run and hide.

How do you deal with the tantrums?