Who should walk me up the aisle??

**Candlelight** · 20-02-2008, 09:43am

It won't be my dad, as they won't be there (see posts in Self)

So who should do it?

I have no ideas, I don't have any brothers/cousins etc

I don't want to ask Dans dad as he is there for Dan not me

I could ask my best friend who is also my bridesmaid although will that look desperate?

Or i could walk up hand in hand with Oliver

What do you think?

I could ask one of dans brothers but that seems a bit weird

Or shall I just walk up alone with bridesmaids and Oliver behind me?

**jubiedoo16** · 20-02-2008, 09:46am

I think Oliver would be a lovely Idea

**Teresa** · 20-02-2008, 09:49am

What do you want to do? Have a good think about who you would like to walk you up the aisle or if you want to walk up by youself.

I have been to weddings where friends have done or bridesmaids. I have seen a bride walk up the aisle on her own and have also been to a wedding where a couple have walked up the aisle together.

If you wanted to you could walk up the aisle with you little boy or your best friend.

Whatever you do will be right for you. It won't look desperate or silly. I think it would be nice for you to walk up the aisle with your little boy but its up to you.

**Roo** · 20-02-2008, 09:51am

I think it would be lovely to walk up with Oliver

But it's totally your choice - can't imagine anyone thinking any option is 'weird', it's whatever YOU want

**Miffy** · 20-02-2008, 09:52am

My first thought when I saw the title of this thread was "Oliver" He is one of the most important men in your life so it makes sense.

**bluekat** · 20-02-2008, 09:54am

My first thought was Oliver.

BKx

**Littlejojo** · 20-02-2008, 09:57am

i would say Oliver or even alone. I always said after my dad died that I would give myself away, not as though I was at home or anything like that. My mum did do it for me though.

**Angel** · 20-02-2008, 10:03am

I would say Oliver too

I think that would be beautiful

to your family

**Bop** · 20-02-2008, 10:06am

M Bop and I walked in together.

As I'd been married before I didn't want my dad to give me away again as I felt I would be a bit like a boomerang, but for anyone else to do it would have insulted my dad. The minister did offer to do it himself, but we preferred to walk in together, albeit not holding hands untl the way out.

Hope you find the right solution for you.

Bop

**parkejm** · 20-02-2008, 10:06am

Oliver! He would be fab! but if not then I agree with T|eresa, any of those options woud be lovely

Ajedrez · 20-02-2008, 10:13am

Oliver!! How lovely that would be, him walking his mum up the aisle

I bet there wouldn't be a dry eye in the place!

**Tekkencat** · 20-02-2008, 10:43am

another one who thinks Oliver would be an ideal choice

**Biba** · 20-02-2008, 10:43am

Do what ever you feel is best, I would say wither with Oliver

or alone

**alex** · 20-02-2008, 10:59am

Oliver Oliver Oliver

**Candlelight** · 20-02-2008, 09:41pm

Thanks everyone

Your replys have made me decide on................................................ ....................Oliver

We can walk up the aisle hand in hand, and the photographer can get spme lovely photos

After all, we have been through so much together, walking up there together to Dan will be the symbol of our new happy life

**YUMMYMUMMY** · 20-02-2008, 09:48pm

aww i def agree, to walk up the aisle with oliver would be just sooo beautiful

**WeeBird** · 20-02-2008, 09:53pm

Originally Posted by Catpaws

Thanks everyone

Your replys have made me decide on................................................ ....................Oliver

We can walk up the aisle hand in hand, and the photographer can get spme lovely photos

After all, we have been through so much together, walking up there together to Dan will be the symbol of our new happy life

Aww, that made me

but in a good way, especially the last bit. It will be absolutely lovely

**lobby** · 20-02-2008, 09:59pm

Originally Posted by Catpaws

After all, we have been through so much together, walking up there together to Dan will be the symbol of our new happy life

that'll be lovely!

**Jamtart** · 20-02-2008, 10:03pm

Originally Posted by Catpaws

After all, we have been through so much together, walking up there together to Dan will be the symbol of our new happy life

thats so beautiful! I think Oliver is the perfect choice

**Anne** · 20-02-2008, 10:15pm

I had my 12 year old son and he stole the show, looked fantastic and made an excellent speech.

Your son could walk you, he is giving you over the your new Dh, so you can be a whole family. He could have his own chair too

Go for it!