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    Am in absolute tears as you guys mean so much to me. But after a PM form Damz tonight about my earlier post, apparently I need to remove myself. I put my hands up that I have perhaps lost perspective and I apologise to those I have upset.

  • #2
    I'm was going to reply to that thread but assume Damz has expressed the same sentiment in the email.
    I'm going to offer you a hug

    We all do / say things and then have second thought about it..


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    • #3
      Re: Gutted to say this...

      I don't think there's anything wrong with your intentions, CL. If you made a mistake then you did it with the best sentiments. I think it's a huge shame if you feel you have to remove yourself.

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      • #4
        Re: Gutted to say this...

        Dams has asked you to leave???? Am I reading that right?

        Big to you Hun, I am sure you did not mean to upset anyone xxxxx

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        • #5
          Re: Gutted to say this...

          I have no second thoughts at all. I think I expressed my emotions. Depression (without insinuating anyone had it) is something I suffer from day to day, suicidal thoughts are something I have had to deal with every single day, for over 3 years.

          I appreciate everything Damsels have done for us and I sincerely apologise if I upset anyone.

          It's an emotional goodbye after 8 years and I really am in floods. Love to all who need it xx

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          • #6
            Seriously? You were asked to leave CL? That's ridiculous. Hope everyone feels more calm in the morning.

            to all.

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            • #7
              I'm not sure if Damz asked you to actually leave, that's not the sentiment I share.
              I meant in the sense that problems/dark periods in peoples life & the effects cannot be trivialised by comparing different lives.

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              • #8
                Re: Gutted to say this...

                Deciding to remove yourself and being asked to remove yourself are two different things.

                If you are deciding to remove yourself then why not take a break instead? Things will feel so much better once some time has passed.

                If you've been asked to leave then I think that's unacceptable. I know what thread has unintentionally caused offence and I am sure you were writing it for all the right reasons.

                Lots of love x x x

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                • #9
                  Re: Gutted to say this...

                  Originally posted by Ruby View Post
                  I don't think there's anything wrong with your intentions, CL. If you made a mistake then you did it with the best sentiments. I think it's a huge shame if you feel you have to remove yourself.
                  I agree with this - assuming your post is still on here (and therefore i've read it) I don't see why you should feel you have to do something so dramatic especially if the forum means so much to you

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                  • #10
                    Re: Gutted to say this...

                    Originally posted by Nicolab View Post
                    I agree with this - assuming your post is still on here (and therefore i've read it) I don't see why you should feel you have to do something so dramatic especially if the forum means so much to you
                    CL is not being "dramatic" if it has been suggested to her by damz (and obviously at the min I don't know if that's the case) then I can understand why CL would be so upset.

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                    • #11
                      Re: Gutted to say this...

                      Originally posted by Adelelee View Post
                      CL is not being "dramatic" if it has been suggested to her by damz (and obviously at the min I don't know if that's the case) then I can understand why CL would be so upset.
                      I didn't mean 'dramatic' as in suggesting drama queen status but meaning I don't see why she should feel she should have to leave so I feel sad for her

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                      • #12
                        Re: Gutted to say this...

                        Originally posted by Nicolab View Post
                        I didn't mean 'dramatic' as in suggesting drama queen status but meaning I don't see why she should feel she should have to leave so I feel sad for her
                        Well maybe she has been asked to leave then and that's why she is so upset.

                        xx

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                        • #13
                          Re: Gutted to say this...

                          Well if she has then judging by the responses on this thread I'm not the only one at a loss to understand why but either way hope she's ok!

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                          • #14
                            Re: Gutted to say this...

                            I have not asked CL to leave. I never would. I was worried about the thread she posted and the effect it could have on some vulnerable damsels, and so I pm'ed her about it and suggested we delete it.

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                            • #15
                              Re: Gutted to say this...

                              Originally posted by Damsella View Post
                              I have not asked CL to leave. I never would. I was worried about the thread she posted and the effect it could have on some vulnerable damsels, and so I pm'ed her about it and suggested we delete it.
                              Now that makes more sense!

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