Really upset.

[Valentine]

Last night Mr.Nay took me out for our anneversary meal and pictures. C stayed with Mr.Nay's mum. We had to pick up some garden furnature today before picking C up and combine that with a lie in we didnt get there intil about 3... that was 22 hours i hadnt seen my little boy and i missed him. All i wanted to do was get a hug and kiss and have a play with him. Any way... it seemed he had other plans. He let me have a tiny cuddle and then spent the following 2 or more hours we were at his grandma's SCREAMING every time she put him on the ground or left the room. He wasnt even looking at me, screamed when i picked him up. He was ok with daddy though. i actually sat on the sofa for the whole time and i actually cried while nobody was looking.

The thing is he is meant to be going to grandma's part time in september when i start my degree but im not sure if i even want to do my degree after today.

[guinness]

aw poor you, couldnt read and not post - have no advice but i'm sure he's just testing you - don't give up your degree, it will so be worth it.
i guess i've got all this to come... he knows you're the unconditional love one so he can push your boudaries further.
don't be upset (easier said than done i know) he loves you more than grandma!

[Badgirl]

This is a familiar story. As many people will know Nathan's dad and i live seperately and we do totally equal care of him. He spends some nights at Neil's and some at my house.

Now if he has spent the last day or so with his Dad and I havent been around then when i turn up he refuses to have anything to do with me for a while- and he is the same with his Dadwhen its the other way round. It doesnt last long and doesnt mean that one of us is loved moe than the other. We have a oke about which one of us happens to be "in fashion" at that time. Sounds like your little one had Grandma "in fashion" simply because she'd looked after him for the last day- I bet he's back to normal now


Funnily enough when we are all together at the weekends Nathan isnt fussed which one of us to go to- treats us equally then