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Seagull&Snoopy
11-11-2006, 08:40pm
I had arranged to go "home" to my Mum and Dad's this weekend.
Firstly arranged to go down tonight, at my Mum said they would be back at 6pm, 7pm ish.

Got a text message at 4pm to say they were on their way back but no time of arrival home (I live 5 hours away!). I texted back to say that perhaps they could tell me an eta. But that it was unlikely to be tonight as they had not given me a time earlier - heard nothing back,

Just phoned them and my Mum was off with me saying why don't you come tomorrow, we are out Monday and Tuesday (appointment and classes and stuff in the evenings). So I said well better not bother you then.
I said, I needed to be out all day tomorrow from 7am onwards as ex might be picking his stuff up and my Mum said well you got friends to go to haven't you?

Put the phone down after a sharp goodbye.

I am 8 weeks pg and not well. In floods of tears. My parents are highly controlling but right now I need them.

A big sob here, feel:pants:

Hello Kitty
11-11-2006, 08:56pm
Oh no poor you, you have such a lot on your plate at the moment. Maybe she didn't mean to sound so off, sometimes people can be abrupt and then regret it afterwards.
Anyway sending you a big hug, cos it sounds like you need one.:higgies:

Timothy's Mum
11-11-2006, 09:18pm
:higgies: to you. Is there anyone you could 'land on' for a day. Closer than 5hrs away if possible.

*Marti*
11-11-2006, 09:21pm
:hug: come and see me!

I have non alcoholic bevvies and a sofa!

I take it they know ur PG??

frog
11-11-2006, 09:42pm
:higgies: :higgies: :higgies: and lots of :choc:

Do your parents know about your baby seagull and what an arse your ex is being?

Easier said than done I now but try not to get too wound up about tomorrow, he may not even turn up and maybe you could leave his stuff on the doorstep so you don't even have to face him if he does turn up :smile:

Seagull&Snoopy
11-11-2006, 10:32pm
Yes they know everthing (the parents), and just feel very :pants: . Anyone want a visitor tomorrow - have SATNAV!!

Seagull
xxx

Seagull&Snoopy
11-11-2006, 10:32pm
Yes they know everthing (the parents), and just feel very :pants: . Anyone want a visitor tomorrow - have SATNAV!!

Seagull
xxx