No call but a text

[ChelseaHarvey]

Still no phonecall from deans brothers girlfriend the links below expalain everything & some of you know the story with deans brother and me

http://www.damsels.org/forum/showthread.php?t=15232

http://www.damsels.org/forum/showthread.php?t=16931

Anyway just get this text that says

"Hi its X - did you & alfie want to come down 1 tues in the next few weeks spend the day at ours the 4 of us me alfie her and there little boy Its a suggestion to try & make amneds, up to you

WTF she is having a laugh surely, no call for a apology and she expects me to go down there spend the day when i really still want nothing to do with her, it would be so awkard me going down, what would i say after a apology had been said if it had

& why do i have to go down there, i feel like i have done that journey so much recently why cant she come here or suggest it..

[~Twiggy~]

:happyno:

Tell her to get her ass up to you if is that important. More tactfully though naturally. :lol:

[Puddser]

I agree. The cheeky mare! Talk about getting you to do all the running. I dont think so:happyno:

[wotsit]

I think you're busy washing your hair that day! :grin:

[Samba]

My instinct is that she has done it this way so that you say No, then she can just say "well I tried but she didn't want to know"

You could try to call her bluff?
Or just text back "Is that an apology then?"

[Angie]

Or just text back "Is that an apology then?"

Yes do this :teehee: . She should apologize really for all the cr@p she put you through when you'd done no wrong.

[ChelseaHarvey]

:happyno:

Tell her to get her ass up to you if is that important. More tactfully though naturally. :lol:

Actually im liking your style there the wording :lol:

[ChelseaHarvey]

Just a thought, but maybe she's scared? She's offering an olive branch - maybe you could text her back and suggest she comes to you instead and see what happens?


She wont come up here, she make a excuse of petrol she cant afford it she doesnt no where she is going as she has never been up here b4

To tell you the truth i dont want her up here/me down there i have nothing to say to her and what the hell are we meant to talk about for the whole day!! To arkward

[Littlejojo]

i think as long as you talk at family do's let alfie and his cousin know each other and become friends. You dont have to be in and out of each others pocket. It would be just more comfortable for everyone else to know there will be no atmosphere.