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Twistarella
03-08-2006, 08:18am
Is anyone any good at interpreting dreams? I've had a recurring dream for the past 2 weeks or so where my DH leaves me for another woman, or tells another woman he loves her and I can hear it.

I have no reason to think my DH is going to leave me. Perhaps it's just a subconscious concern I have now bubs is on the way.

I told him this morning that I had a dream last night about him leaving me for another woman I could see in my dream and he looked at me like I was a bit mad, which clearly I am!

Any ideas as to what it means? I worry that it's recurring and I'm obviously not getting the message of whatever it's supposed to mean!

Kerzen
03-08-2006, 08:34am
Any ideas as to what it means? I worry that it's recurring and I'm obviously not getting the message of whatever it's supposed to mean!

I don't think it's 'supposed' to mean anything, unless you believe dreams are messages from some divine being. It might me a subconcious fear or it might relate to something you've seen or read or were thinking about before you went to sleep. Is there an infidelity storyline on your favourite soap?

I dreamt last night I was in the 2nd world war, and I know why - we were watching one of the 'Sharpe' series yesterday and talking about how they used the same milatry tactics as the first world war, and although it's generally said that the generals were fighting a previous war, we didn't realise it was the Napoleonic one.:puzzled:

Apparently dreams aren't a coherent storyline at all, they're just a mass of images that your brain tries to make sense of when you wake up:brainache:

Sorry to see that your insecurities over your oh haven't gone away :higgies:

Twistarella
03-08-2006, 08:59am
Sorry to see that your insecurities over your oh haven't gone away :higgies:

Actually I've been SO much better in the last few months. These dreams are just concerning me, but like you say it could be down to anything. I don't like recurring dreams - I think they happen because it's your subconscious telling you something and I very rarely get them.

bluecow
03-08-2006, 09:05am
I have no reason to think my DH is going to leave me. Perhaps it's just a subconscious concern I have now bubs is on the way.

Any ideas as to what it means? I worry that it's recurring and I'm obviously not getting the message of whatever it's supposed to mean!

I think you have answered your own question, it is because you are pregnant so I wouldn't read anything into it. They could be recurring because you keep wondering why you are dreaming them so the they are always in the back of your mind. :smile:

I had the most bizarre dreams when I was pregnant and I was the one doing the 'cheating', mainly with much younger blokes :teehee:

Kerzen
03-08-2006, 11:00am
Glad to hear you're feeling more positive :smile: . I think bluecow's right - you worry about your dreams, cause they are pretty unpleasant and with them in the back of your mind you dream about the aame things that you're worried about and then you worry even more, because they're recurring.... it's a vicious cycle!

Valentine
03-08-2006, 12:16pm
i always have dreams my boyfriend is running off with somebody else... i think it s all based on insecureties and i wouldnt worry too much about it :hug:

Sparkly
03-08-2006, 02:23pm
My DH often has similar dreams about me - & I've no intention of being unfaithful to him AT ALL!! :wink:

:hug: try not to worry hon - I had crazy dreams when I was pg too.

Stephi103
04-08-2006, 10:44am
When DP and I got together I had been cheated on a couple of times before hand. I was very insecure and loved DP very much and didn't want him to do the same.

I would have dreams about him leaving me quite alot and would always get so upset. He has stuck by me and now I am so much better and I now don't have these types of dreams, so I do belive that it is your subconsious coming out and that you are worrying deep down.

I wouldn't stress about it though because it will only make it worse!