start of one hell of a day.......

[tekkencat]

i dont even know where to start - or if i should

im just having a baaaaaaaad day and I dont think its going to get any better ever (the kids are ok but i dont think me and OH are)

Ive just been to the post office and even the honey behind the counter said i wasnt myself and i just burst into tears feccccccccccckin hell

sorry damsels but i think i may need you more than usual xx

[August Girl]

What's the matter TC? I'm here for the rest of the day so feel free to vent :hug:

[chicken.babe]

oh hun,whats up? :hugs:

[bisy backson]

aw tc, big hugs, i'm here for a bit too if you need to offload

bbxx

[Devil Girl]

:higgies: :flowers: :grouphug:

[Julesb]

I'm working, well i'm in my office at home with a cat, but i'm more than happy to listen and be of help if i can.x

[Cupcake's Mum]

Big Hugs :hugs:

[Valentine]

Tc... whats up? :hug:

[Adelelee]

Oh sweetheat, whats wrong?? You say you and DH are not OK, have you had a row or something????

Will be on and off line all day so please vent if you need too, or you have my mobile if you need to talk

Adele
xx

[*Fallen Angel*]

What's up tc?

:flowers:

[tekkencat]

Thanx for the replies i cant even type properly as im soooo upset - and i dont even know why - but i think the most perfect relationship i have ever ever ever had may be coming to and end

Mr tc went to pick up his ds this morning (we usually all go but i was shattered so stayed home with little C) when he got back he said we need to talk about stuff (i thought we were just going through the usual new baby in the house/our lives thing) but then said very little and buggered off out with his ds - I called him as i need to pick dd up from her nannas but he wouldnt say where he was or when he'll be back

I ve now had to explain all this to dd nanna who i have only just back in contact with after 7 months (it looks like ive dumped her on them)

Ive spent all morning with my pg neighbour - she's looked after C for me as im too much of a wreck to

feckity arse - it doesnt even make sence does it - sorry

[Cherrypie]

Oh, TC. Don't know what to say. I so hope it's all a storm in a teacup, and he's in a better frame of mind later.

I'm going out soon, but will text you later. xxx

[chicken.babe]

Not sure what to say...only I hope it sorts its self out?...It might be a man being a man! IYNWIM
:higgies: think you might be in need of a hugg xx

[sapphire]

:higgies: hope your OK tc!!!
xxx

[dora the ex...]

aww :higgies: i hope your ok maybe it will sort itsself out hun hope your ok xx

[tekkencat]

erm it seems its not going to sort itself out apparently

i am now a single mum with 2 kids and i just want to die -

[Julesb]

What has he actually said because relationships don't just end like this.

[tekkencat]

apparently they do

[August Girl]

What on earth has happened TC? What's the cause of it?

Big hugs to you :hug:

[chicken.babe]

oh hun,there must be something going on for him to just end it like that! wont he sit down and talk to you? you deserve to know?

[dora the ex...]

aww no whats happend hun can you not talk to him...there must be a reason...sit him down and talk

[*Fallen Angel*]

Can understand you being in bits. He really does need to give you some sort of explanation. Has anything happened to lead up to this?

xx

[sapphire]

TC he must have a reason...what has he actually said to you?

:hug:don't say you want to die i'm sure you don't mean it xxx

[Cherrylips]

TC, I always thought you and your OH were so happy.
What on earth has happened hon??

Text me if you need to hon, lord knows Iv texted you when there wasnt anywhere else to turn.

Take care and hope you are ok xx

[bluecow]

TC :higgies: That is awful. Has something happened to make him walk out on you like this?

I hope you are OK.

[tekkencat]

we've just started our own business and he spends all of his time sorting that out (fair enough i totally understand that) but we dont ever have time for each other at the mo - ive taken it as being one of those things and it'll sort itself out but he now has turned round and said - its over WTF
so as silly as it sounds thats it according to him - he's out with his ds and wont trll me when he's back - im starting to get pi55ed off which doesnt help and i really cant deal with something so perfect going so bloody wrong so so quick

(he actually said i was damselling too much - aghhhhhhhhhh what else am i meant to do when he is working !!!!!)

feck - i just wanna stop crying i look like alice cooper - and we all now how badly he's aged (omg i cant beleive im cracking jokes )

i feel like i want to die as i feel my whole worlds collapsed but i cant cos i have my faaaab kids to think of

[sapphire]

TC maybe it's just the stress talking. Once he's has a few hours to think about it he may realise he's being unreasonable.

[popinjay1]

O my God TC. I don't know what to say. I can't believe your OH has not even really explained anything. I hope you can have a proper talk soon. Thinking of you. You know us damsels are all here for you.

[tekkencat]

ive spoken to him (again) and hes not coming back till gone 8 when he said he will try and speak - but i know him and it doesnt sound hopeful

(i bet if his ex is reading this shes chanting "i told you so i told you so" well i suppose you did )

[dora the ex...]

aww just wanted to send you extra hugs :higgies:

[sapphire]

dont worry what his ex will be thinking its nothing to do with her.

[MsNat]

I hope everything sorts its self out soon for you :hug: :hug:

[Cat Queen]

I hope everything will sort itself out for you, honestly men think that if they aren't getting your 100% attention because you have 1001 other things to do that it means the end of the relationship...Hopefully the time he has been out has given him time to really think about things and sort his head out. I know how you feel though honey, went through this last weekend with my OH...take care

[Cheetara]

Ahh TC I'm sorry to hear this. Your OH is being a complete and utter barsteward putting you through this. That man has some serious explaining to do.

:hug:

[Damsella]

So sorry to here this TC :-(

What do you mean by his ex saying "I told you so"? That makes it sound like it's all about him, like this is the sort of thing he might do, rather than it being your fault.

Huge hugs to you :grouphug:

[RedTiger]

:hug: Sorry to hear this tc :-( If its any help to you DH & I went through a very rough patch for over a year - he has his own business and I never see him - but we are still together (how I don't know) and things seem to be getting better.

I hope this is something you can work through :flowers:

[Amethyst]

I`m so sorry to hear this TC:higgies: :higgies: :higgies: .

Amethyst x

[Sweetie Pie]

Sorry to hear this TC :-( i hope he comes home soon so you can sort it out properly face to face. We're all here if you need us :hug:

[Pikeypants]

Well I hope to goodness he makes more sense when he comes back at 8 because he sure as hell isn't making any so far.

TC- Why don't you shut Damsels down before he gets back if he has a problem with it- just to remove one immediate issue from this nightmare.

Try to calm down if you can so that you can talk rationally when he comes home. I just hope you can find some way to be happy with each other again.

Lots of love xxx

[chicken.babe]

just wanted to send you another :hug: and I hope you can sort it out xx

[Adelelee]

Hun, so sorry to hear whats happened:no::no::no: I really hope right now you and DH are having a good talk and sorting out whatever issues you both may have, and I hope he is giving some kind of explanation for the way he has gone about this :huh::huh:

Hugs to you love

Adele
xx

[*kate*]

Sorry to hear this TC, hope you can sort things out :hug:

[Redsquare]

Just read this TC :hug:

Hope you've managed to sit down and work through whatevers going on in OH head.

Take care and PM me if you want to talk/vent.

[Cherrypie]

Hope things are better today, TC. xxx

[Damsella]

How did it go TC? :grouphug:

[ms sweetcheeks]

:grouphug: :hugs: :hug: TK, i am really sorry to read about this, it doesn't make sense though.
Hopefully he's just having an off day!?
Sending you big hugs and am thinking of you.

[Cherrylips]

How did last night go TC?

Hope you are OK. Have texted you hon.

Love Cherry x

[Dancing Queen]

OMG TC, just seen this. I don't know what to say honey, but I'm hoping to God that your chat went well last night, and Mr TC was just being a drama queen.....

Sending you loads of hugs and strength vibes :hugs: :hugs:

[Alycat]

TC have only just seen this. Hope you and Mr TC can sort this out and any other problems you have and move on. You always seemed so happy and strong and am sure if you keep this in mind you can get through this together

As for the ex stuff what she thinks

[Cherrypie]

Just wanted to say that I've had a text from Mr TC. She says Mr TC and she are talking it through, and sounded more positive than she did yesterday.
She's going to take a wee break from Damsels while they get sorted out. But thanks everyone for their kind comments and good wishes.

CP. xxx

[DillyDally]

I'm glad Cherrypie reported some better news. If you read this Mrs TC, I'm thinking of you ((hugs)).

[Cheetara]

Thanks for letting us know Cherrypie :smile:

Hope everything works out for you TC :hug:

[Adelelee]

Thanks for letting us know Cherry, TC hope you are OK love:flowers::flowers:

[scarfy]

I can't read and not post. I really hope you can both work things through TC. Wishing you all the hugs in the world.:higgies: :higgies: :higgies: :fingerscrossed:

scarfy

[Redsquare]

We're here for you TC.

Thanks for the update cherrypie.

[RedTiger]

Glad there's some positive new from TC.

Hope you can work it out :flowers: :hug:

[ChelseaHarvey]

Have only just seen this TC

CP saw your update and am glad there talking things through, i hope things work out for them

[Mad Cow]

Sorry i have only just seen this thread. Thinking of you TC and i really hope you and oH can work this out.

We are here when you are ready.

[Cherrylips]

Really hope you are ok TC. Sending you a hue hug.

Post or text when you feel ready hun. Thinking of you :kiss: